Barking Problems
Learn why dogs bark and teach them to be quiet and polite instead.
The simple answer is: dogs don’t speak “Human” so the bark instead! Barking might be annoying to us, but a lot of times it’s just a dog’s way of communicating, getting attention, or having fun. In this lesson we’ll go over the different situations where dogs bark, and especially the ones that are inappropriate that we should stop. We’ll also go over how to avoid puppy barking before it starts, and how to stop barking that’s already started.
The first thing to understand about barking is that with other dogs, it can be totally normal and appropriate communication. Think about how dogs don’t speak like we do, they only bark, growl, and make other noises. Go check out our lesson on FRIENDLY DOG PLAY to see all the different things that dogs do when they play with each other. Barking is one of them! Here’s some examples of dogs playing nicely and barking – nothing to be concerned about!:
Sometimes dogs can get frustrated when they can’t go say hello to a person or dog because there’s something in the way, like windows, doors, gates, or they’re on a leash.
IMPORTANT: This does not mean that your dog is aggressive or violent, it just means that you might want to teach them how to be calm when they can’t go say hi immediately. The lessons on JUMPING FOR ATTENTION can help with this, but it’s best to work on these issues with an experienced trainer.
Remember from HOW DOGS THINK that your dog is just like a 3-4 year old toddler who wants to get good things like food, treats, toys, and attention. They really aren’t trying to annoy you with their barking!
The problem is that dogs are really good at making connections – like when you look at them every time they bark. So if “bark at humans” means that “humans look at me and maybe give me attention”, then your dog will do it more!
Here are some examples of what NOT to do when your dog barks. Then we’ll show you how to stop and avoid it.
It’s very important to understand that puppies are a lot like babies. They need a lot of attention, a lot of naps, and they sometimes cry for no reason at all! But instead of crying, puppies will bark. So the best thing to do when they bark is to avoid giving them any attention at all. Remember HOW DOGS THINK – if you do something good after the barking, they’ll just do it more!:
Now you have to keep in mind that all of these things can be considered a “reward” for dogs when they’re barking:
So when you have a puppy, make sure to do this:
Now you have to keep in mind that all of these things can be considered a “reward” for dogs when they’re barking:
So when you have a puppy, make sure to do this:
So the best thing to do when you get a puppy is to first make sure they like going into their crate. Review how to do this in ALL ABOUT CRATES and when they are spending some time in the crate, DO NOT do anything that could be rewarding, like walking in the room or even talking to them.
This is how you don’t let your puppy learn to start barking. But what if they already are doing it for attention? That’s covered in the next section…
Finally! Now what do we do with a dog that has already learned to bark at us to get attention, get food, throw the ball, or anything else? Simple: we need to teach them that the opposite is true instead. They won’t get any attention when they’re barking, and they’ll actually get lots of attention and toys and treats when they’re quiet. There’s always 2 parts to changing bad behavior: POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT and ignoring bad behavior, which is actually a kind of PUNISHMENT.
Using positive reinforcement first to teach your dog new things is much less stressful on them. You can only even think about using light punishments once they know the behavior you actually want them to do. If your dog hasn’t been taught with positive reinforcement first, being punished for something they don’t understand will be very stressful! This can damage your relationship and cause your dog to totally shut down.
The first thing to do when teaching your dog to be more polite when they want something is to teach yourself not to give them any attention when they bark at you. Turn around immediately, stop playing, and maybe even walk away if they are being really bad. This is actually a type of PUNISHMENT, like time out. You are taking away all the fun and games! It should look something like this:
Your dog will never learn to stop barking if you only ignore it. So the next thing to do after you’ve turned around a few times for barking is to start rewarding them for short periods of being quiet, even just a second or two! The easiest way to do this is to show your dog some reward, like a toy or a treat, as a “promise” for what they get if they’re quiet. It should look something like this:
If they understood the promise correctly, they might be quiet for a few seconds. Then you can give them the toy or treat. It should look like this:
Now that your dog is understanding that the quiet is getting them rewards and the barking is getting you to turn away and ignore them, it’s time to make this tougher! After repeating the quiet exercise, add another second to how long your dog has to wait to get their reward. Don’t progress too fast though, because they might get too frustrated! Hopefully you can progress like this: