Confidence Building
Show your dog that things around them are fun and not dangerous!
Now that you know how to teach your dog not to be afraid of one thing at a time, let’s take it further and make sure that they really aren’t afraid at all of those scary things anymore – no matter what they are! Let’s teach our dogs to like everything they see! Everything that used to be scary can now be something super positive and fun.
When you want your dog to be super happy and confident, you’re going to have to do a bit of work! Your job will be to take your dog to a place that has lots of noises, objects, and people and do the fear training that you learned back in the lesson on how to FIX DOG FEARS.
In dog training, we want dogs to be more “confident” because it means that they are not afraid of new things. Dogs that are less fearful are healthier, happier, and less likely to bite out of fear.
We can do this by training dogs to do things that a confident dog would do, until they start to do them on their own. Basically it’s “fake it til you make it”!
For example, you could teach your dog to go up to new people and then reward them for it. Or teach them to approach strange new objects and reward them for that too. Eventually they will do these things without your having to ask them to. When your dog is going up to check out new things on their own, that’s the look of confidence!
Make sure to take lots of treats, a happy attitude, and show your doggo that everything in the world actually leads to getting treats, not being afraid! Don’t be afraid to go overboard with the treats. This is the time to use the highest value treats you can think of!
Every time your dog shows you that they have a fear you didn’t know about, you can quickly show them that there is nothing to be afraid of! Walk up to the trigger with a fun attitude and reward your dog for approaching.
Each time your dog is able to get closer to the trigger, say “YES!”, give them a treat, and walk away again. This way they will learn to WANT to be closer to the trigger to get delicious treats!
After you’ve repeated step 2 a few times, your dog will get the hang of it and start approaching the tigger on their own. This is good and you should reward this confident behavior!
Remember!…
In dog training, we want dogs to be more “confident” because it means that they are not afraid of new things. Dogs that are less fearful are healthier, happier, and less likely to bite out of fear.
We can do this by training dogs to do things that a confident dog would do, until they start to do them on their own. Basically it’s “fake it til you make it”!
For example, you could teach your dog to go up to new people and then reward them for it. Or teach them to approach strange new objects and reward them for that too. Eventually they will do these things without your having to ask them to. When your dog is going up to check out new things on their own, that’s the look of confidence!
Next we have to help your dog overcome fear of the trigger when it moves or makes noise. Leave this step for last since it’s the hardest!
Now that you’ve done the proactive and more difficult counter-conditioning, you can sit back and do the easy part. If your dog is ready, surround them with triggers while they sit there and watch them go by. This is called flooding, and you should only do it if your dog has been shown with positive conditioning not to fear the triggers anymore.
You’ve done the hard part of training, counter-conditioning, and maybe even flooding… what’s next? Now you can relax a little! Now that your dog understands that the triggers are actually very good, you can relax and let your dog get used to them being around. This simple process is called Desensitizing, and it should only happen after Counter-Conditioning.
While most fears that dogs have may come from people, objects, and sounds, some fears actually come from different kinds of walking surfaces. Getting your dog to interact with all kinds of things is the definition of confidence, so this is also something we want to train!
Even if you’re not going out for training, it’s very important to make sure that if your dog seems afraid of something or someone, to not lose the opportunity to teach them that it’s not a threat! You might not have treats, but you can always use your voice to show your dog that there’s nothing to be afraid of. After lots of training, your dog will learn to follow your lead and trust you more.
Your job here is to pay more attention to your dog than anything around them. Whenever your dog looks at something, say “YES” and give them a treat, and lead them away. No matter what your dog was concerned with, they get a treat for everything they see! Eventually you’ll also want to ask for help from the people around you to give your dog treats in a non-scary way.
Teaching your dog not to jump on YOU can actually go pretty fast, but many dog owners have a lot more trouble teaching their dog not to jump up on other people.
Having a dog is all about socializing and having fun with them. Interacting with other people is an important part of that. Don’t be shy – ask for help when greeting people. Most dog lover will be very happy to help with the training! It helps to develop a “script” when you go out with your dog to tell people what to do, like:
“Yes you can totally pet him! But here’s a treat, you have to ask him to sit first.”