How To Communicate With Your Dog
Use your voice to “speak dog” and not rely on treats all the time!
After covering the lesson on POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT, you should know that dogs are motivated by LOTS of different fun things like food, treats, toys, playing, and especially love from their owners!Â
In this lesson we’re going to show how to use your voice to praise your dog, instead of using treats. This is important because most of the time you won’t have treats on you, and eventually all dogs should to learn to behave and listen to their owners without treats at all!
A high-pitched, bubbly voice is clearly much happier than a low-pitched, stern voice. Dogs can tell this too. Verbal communication can be even more important than treats. To train effectively, you’ll have to start to engaging with your dog all the time!
So always remember:
Dogs communicate much faster than humans are used to, and you’ll need to reward your dog for focusing on you a lot of the time. A happy, silly voice will help a lot with showing your dog that they are doing the right things and that there’s nothing to be stressed about. You may feel silly, but your dog’s happiness and good training is much more important than anything else!
The best way to use the right voice to train your dog is to smile! It’s tough to not have a happy voice when you’re smiling. And your dog needs to know that they’re doing a good job! Training isn’t about teaching your dog to be a robot, it’s about learning to communicate with them.Â
You should always use your dogs name with the nicest tone possible. You want your dog look at you when you say their name. If they’re far away they may even run over to you if you’re happy enough!
One of the most confusing things you can do when working with your dog is saying nothing. So get used to engaging and communicating with your dog, especially when they do something good!
Here are some great examples of how to use a silly voice when training:
You can actually use praising and petting your dog as a “treat” too, as long as you’re really fast about giving them the “treat”, just like you would be with an actual food treat. Get really into is and make your dog super happy!Â
it’s important to learn how to do this because petty and praise will be used to replace treats eventually.Â
It’s important to get very comfortable using praise and petting as rewards, because they are your main tool in “fading out” treats. That means using fewer treats over time so that your dog listens to you whenever you ask them to, not only when you have treats.
Basically, you will always be using “rewards”, but eventually you will use far more verbal praise than food rewards. Food treats are just easier to use at the start of teaching something new.Â
A mean or stern voice is one of the few methods we will use for punishment. In general, punishments shouldn’t be used much, but light punishment can be used if your dog has already been taught how to do something the right way first, through POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT.
Remember as a good rule of thumb:
Using positive reinforcement first to teach your dog new things is much less stressful on them. You can only even think about using light punishments once they know the behavior you actually want them to do. If your dog hasn’t been taught with positive reinforcement first, being punished for something they don’t understand will be very stressful! This can damage your relationship and cause your dog to totally shut down.
Here is an example from the UP AND OFF lesson where we first teach up and off, then use punishment voice to show the dog that we do not like him being on the couch at all. This is only appropriate because he was first taught “up” and “off”with positive reinforcement so that he could understand what to do when we got upset.Â
One last thing to remember is just how fast dogs communicate. Dogs are constantly giving each other signals about how they feel. Dogs work very quickly. You’ll need to understand that your dog is looking for the same amount of feedback from you about what is going on around them.Â
Teaching leash walking is a good example of just how much communication it takes to show your dog what you want them to do. When first teaching leash walking, it takes a lot of talking and engagement and silly voice to keep their attention and reward them for focusing.Â
And as always, remember:Â
Using positive reinforcement first to teach your dog new things is much less stressful on them. You can only even think about using light punishments once they know the behavior you actually want them to do. If your dog hasn’t been taught with positive reinforcement first, being punished for something they don’t understand will be very stressful! This can damage your relationship and cause your dog to totally shut down.